Date From Hell

On saturday nite I had a date with this dude we will call "no job -he actually had NO job at first but now he does I guess I dont know moving along...- Since I've never met anyone online, and our worlds a little crazy latley I made him bring a friend so we could double date wih Audri & I.

No job sat across from Audri and spent the nite talking to her, AFTER she told him that hes being rude and needs to talk to me. Then the friend he brought with him was so high that he could hardly think of things to say. After diner * which THEY asked us to, and WE paid for our own food gssh chivalry dead? I'm all for equality, and Id rather at least pay half the dinner bill, but that's when I ask someone out, if someone asks ME out I at least expect them to pay* After dinner it was still to early to go drink at the bar we planned on drinking at (and ditching them at..yeah it was THAT bad) so we went across the street to the local bar and sang kareokee, I also spend long periods of time in the bathroom hoping they were having just as bad as time that I am and would ditch us, yeah not so much.

Finally it was time to head to the place I origanally wanted to drink * Although at this point, drinking with these two started to look like a really bad idea, and figured I should just go home. * We went across the street to call a cab, while I was in the bathroom * again, waiting for them to leave Timmies, hoping they felt awkward too go figure they didn't* some guy comes over to me and asks if those guys outside are annoying us, and if we want to hangout with him instead and ditch the other guys off. Well call me rude, but I didn't even think twice about it. Audri and I jumped in the guys car faster the crabs jump from toilet seats! His name was Geoff, and he ended up being a rather cool guy, being our chauffeur for the night :)

Now wondering what happened to the two guys I ditched off, THEY GOT IN THE CAB AND FOLLOWED US TO THE BAR, STILL UNAWARE THAT THEY ARE BEING DITCHED! I actually got a txt saying ' haha our cabs beating yours, what bar are we meeting up at again?' REALLY?! at that point I said yeah its not working out, I'm going to the strip club. I couldn't believe that he just really couldn't take the hint!

So moral of the story, You only live once made dates of not ... like swiss said " On to the next one .."

Be sure to link up with Molly for #YOLOMondays

Weekend recap

Welcome To My "weekend Recap" with Sami



Friday,
Friday I booked off work to go to the jays game, before the game started I went to the wake of my families friends who past away last Thursday night. I never thought it would be as hard to see them rest as it was, knowing Ill never heard Paul and Cindy voices wasn't as easy as I thought it was going to be. Man I really cant express how truly sorry I am, but at the same time how proud I am of there 3 kids, who stood there smile on the faces, gave there thank you speeches. They just stood there looking so strong as the 3 of them supported each other. After I left there, my friend Amber came and picked me up to go to Oshawa, where I met my brother in -law and nephew to board the train to union! The Jays game was amazing, I went to go take a picture of my man Brett Lawrie when all of a sudden this happened!

Hit straight to 3rd. <3 And when I went to take a picture of Travis Snider, this happened!

HOMERUN!

- How amazing, its like they knew I was waiting and watching them ;)

After the game we got food from WaToo's, and headed back to my sisters house. John, my brother in law and I stayed up for a few hours watching TV, found my new guilty pleasure "King of Thrones".

Saturday,
I spent the morning relaxing with my sister, and sister in law watchin my nephews play <3. I love spending time at my sisters house, its so relaxing. Audri came and got me later that afternoon (while getting lost 400 times, when all I gave here were 3 simple directions!LOL,blondes :p jokes) we headed back home and got ready for a hoe saturday. First we had a double date with this guy I've been talking to on this dating site I signed up for a few weeks ago, * which has been a complete waste of time * WORST DATE EVER! - * check out that post here * . After the date, I headed to the city to go to the bar anyway, we ended up bar hoping, I got out of the cab & I left my cell on the back seat. Yep my dell fuckin streak. They phone that I cracked the operating system on because it hadn't been released yet for the phone, plus the 16G memory card, plus 1000+ pictures of my self in my bra/undies that I was taking for my weight loss pictures, there's pictures of my nephews on there, and EVERYONE knows how many creeps there are out there. I called and cancelled the line immediately, but still you never know what can be done with those things.

Sunday,
I did nothing. I have no connection to the outside world. No cable, no internet, no contacts so I ended up missing my friends bridal party. Ugh I really hope she forgives me I feel like such an ass for not being there to support her, after she chose to put me in the wedding party. I was littererly so upset about my phone that I didn't know what to do with myself, after an hour long work out, pacing back and forth, I took at 8 hour nap, and when I woke up I was still so upset, Its not the phone that I lost its replaceable, its the fact that this phone is so technically advanced that the person who found the phone wouldn't even be able to appreciate it. Oh well that's what I get for being drunk and bar hoping with my phone!

Hope everyone's weekend was better then mine =)

Friday letters

Welcome to " Friday Letters" Be sure to join the link up with Ashley ..




Dear jays,
Im on the train right now as i type this, praying that you guys kick ass tonight. Sorry I forgot my hat but I'm showing my pride with my blue shirt I'm wearing.

Dear Cindy and Paul,
Today I was thinking when did I even meet these people and truth is I cant even remember. You guys were always around for all the important and non important things that happen in Amy and Pocks life, every little moment I remember you guys being there. Today I learned that you two touch more lives in your short lived time then most ppl in a life time. I'm going to miss hearing "DIRRRRRRRRTY" more then you'll ever know.

Dear siblings,
I'm glad that were doing family stuff. This never use to happen. I love that were spending time together as families should.

Dear Adrian,
I'm really enjoying this train ride with you, you really are to cute for words. Auntie luvs you!!

Hope everyone has a great weekend, check back Monday to see how mine turned out. :)

Currently..

This weeks themes are: enjoying, learning, inspired by, becoming, and indulging in.

Im currently enjoying..

The fact that in 24 hours I will be at the jays game!

Im currently learning..

That everything does happen for a reason, those who you think will never change may just surprise you.

Im currently insired by..

The 3 kids who just lost there parents yet, i havent heard one negative comment, and they ahve seemed to been nothing but strong, I hope they stay that way and continue to take care of each other...may your parents Cindy & Paul rest in paradice Sam, MarcASS, & Tayler

Im currently becoming ..

The person I was raised by, and shes not even my mom. I nit pick about all the same stuff, I feel the same way about certain issues, and im cheap just like her. :) Luv you Amy, thanks again and again for everything you do, you have done, and will continue to do

Im currently indulging in..

The fact that its almost the weekend, time to let loose!

Free your mind (Wk 2)

Last week I came accrossed a site with 50 Random questions about life that in my opinion everyone should ask them selfs. Every week I'll answer one question. You can find all the questions Here Leave me a comment if you decided to answer some of the questions too, so i can check out your answers!

And my answers Listed below..
How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?

This weeks Question,
Which is worse, failing or never trying?

Failing. Hands down.
At first I was going to say never trying, that's true to an extent. When I'm really focused on something, when I really want something to happen, I put my all into it. Work, friends, love, hell even cleaning, I go all out its quite funny, I cant even make a sandwich without doing all the dishes wiping down the counter top and stove, its that bad! Anyway, whatever it is I give it all all. So when things don't work out the way I planned or the way I want them to it feels like my life is over.

Call me a sore loser or whatever, but I think everyone agrees that failing sucks, especially after you put your everything into it. So at the end of the day I feel more upset over the fact that failing is worse then never trying.

Wordless Wednesday

linking up with Rebecca @ Let Them Eat Cake



..just cause I <3 the puppy!! and I posted about wanted a boxer see how cute they turn out

I love you, man

Normally I dont post personal info on my freinds, however today im happier then a pig in shit, and couldnt be more proud to say that today one of my best friends sent me this!

*Ry's name is saved under Vanilla because, we were ALWAYS together, like chocholate and vanilla *

Ry & I met back in 2002 I believe he was the badass kid, and I was in love. We spent every waking minute of my life together. Doing whatever Ry wanted to do, I hung onto his everyword, it was the most unhealthy relationship. I drank, I stole cigarette, I smoked weed. It was so unlike me, but I needed Ry's attention so bad that none of that mattered to me I didnt even think I just did things. He has that control on people he just makes them do things. Ill remember this next part FOREVER and a day, I was at my dads house ( Part of my wknd visitations) and when I came home Ry wasnt there, he was always there. It turns out just like that he moved away. Turns out that he got busted for stealing from his uncles house, and got kicked out and moved back to his home town. 3 hours away.

Insert sappy song hear, like Deana Carter who I like to think wrote "Strawberry Wine" for us ...
"A few cards and letters and one long distance call We drifted away like the leaves in the fall"

OR

"I was caught somewhere between a woman and a child When one restless summer we found love growing wild On the banks of the river on a well beaten path It's funny how those memories they last"

Anywho... back to the story ;)

So Ry went home, and I spent the next 8 years wondering whatever happen to the guy. After a few conversations and 1 letter, never heard from him again. Well wouldn't know, 2 years ago in March he called his uncle because he heard he had his own construction company and was looking for work. That uncle was Pock, My Amys now husband. So I have to live under the same rough with the guy who stole my heart 8 years ago, when I was wittle teenage girl it means that I never really got over that first "Love" if you will...

When Ry moved in with me my world stopped again, for about a week. Then I quickly got over it, and told him to STFU, and hes been my BFF since. Just like before we spent every minute together this time it was different, not sure if it was because I wasn't so obsessed with him anymore, or if its because I wasn't a 15 yr old girl anymore but his opinion just didn't matter, at least I thought it didn't matter. A lot of stupid shit later, a few drug busts, a few drunk/driving nights, a few stealing and vandalizing nights, a few WTF did we do to this shit last night nights had caught up to us however it took 2 years.

2 long years, 2 years of us fighting, and making up. Him getting in shit, and me covering for him. Me going along with whatever he wanted me to do, no matter what my friends and family though. Until enough was enough, I wasn't about to follow him down his next path in life, Oxycontins. Turns out that while Ry was living back in his home town, he developed a addiction to oxys, when he moved back here it was short end supply but I still remember him being the Ry that I fell in love with not the monster I was about to meet.

When Ry is coming down, or doesn't know where his next fix is coming from he is the worst person. He'll lie cheat steal, shit I'm pretty sure he would of murdered someone to find pills. It ruined our relationship, just ruined it. It was over, done. I could not handle it anymore, he yelled at me and argued with me about anything. He would just pick fights for the sake of picking fights. He would lie to me and tell me someone said something just to see my reaction. It was pathetic, he was pathetic. However when Ry wasn't high he was the old Ry that I loved, and who made me fell loved. That I cared so much about, it made me almost forget about all the shit he tried to pull.

Back in Oct, things went way to far. I couldn't do it anymore and I did something I never thought I would be able to do, I left. I packed my shit, and I moved out. I told Ryan to never speak to me again, to lose my number, forget we met ect ect. Between Ry and I moving into my brothers, and me moving out he developed a coke problem as well. It got so bad that his friends were telling me that I need to get Ry help, and they were druggies too! Ry brought my brother into this mess, at that point I was also forced to end my relationship with my brother. He was behaving just like Ry.

In Dec, Ry fucked up large, owed to many ppl money, and god only knows what else hes done. He sent me a txt asking if he could see me before he left for AB. WAIT WHAT ALBERTA! I didn't want him to leave. I hadn't spoken to him in 2 months, and I had no plans of speaking to him in the future, however I just couldn't let him go. Chalk it up to he was still my first love I suppose. Ry came over to my house, we didn't talk about anything. 'Cause it didn't matter. I felt it, I knew he was sorry I knew that wasn't him, I knew that leaving this shit whole and going to Alberta with his parents was something that Ry always talked about not wanting to do. Since he was willing to go, I knew that he needed my support after he left I could either turn the other cheek and pretend he never came back into my life. Or I could be his friend, the only one hes got at this point, and support him.

And I did, and am I ever glad that I did.

I knew you could do it Ry,
I love you man!!

Double Link up!

Usually I link up with Allyce for Is That Normal Tuesday, However shes taking a break from blogging, and she will be missed however I found 2 new link ups!

So this week im linking up with Paige for Tuesday 10 wishes link up!

This week,
10 must have Christmas items :)

1. A Puppy,
I really want a puppy, like how cute are freakin pupppies! Not just any dog though, I want a box, mainly because there so flippin cute I mean look..

2. A Car,
Really dont care what it looks like as long as the thing runs!

3. New furniture,
I know tabby loves it and never ever ever can part with it, but its so ugly!

4. Gift cards,
For anywhere really, im not picky. I just love free stuff

5. A new bed,
I love my bed, I really do but I just want something more grown up, like a bedroom set.

6. 1 year Gym membership,
I refuse to spend money on one because I can do it all myself, but if someone bought me one then Id def go to the gym, yeah Im THAT kind of cheap

7. Ear phones,
So I stop catching catchy songs in my head, like "Pay phone" - thanks Christine!

8. Someone to make me a " Grab my button" link for free!

9. Tickets to see an amazing concert.
* to many to choose from, but if i had to just HAD to pick one *

10. Round Trip tickets to visit, Abby,BC Fort Mac,AB & Calgary,AB
* Miss you Tony, Ry, And Aunt M!*



ANNNNNNNNNNNNNND

Linking up with Jane for Truth or dare Tuesday,

This weeks questions

Truth: If you had 24 hours left to live, how would you spend it?
OR
Dare: Post a photo or video of your bedroom as is. Tell us about what we see.

uploading a photo would of been fun, if my room wasn't so lame! we have panel walls I cant even hang pictures!! except for in the spots that still had nails from the last tenant! So anyway..

If I had 24 hours to live, and money wasn't an option I'd have Tony fly in from BC to spend every last second with me.

Id call everyone I normally do without telling them its my last 24 hours, then they would spend it trying to tell me everything they ever wanted to say without simply saying the words I would want to hear, " Love ya, Cya later"

Id make sure to see each little boy in my life who means the world to me <3

Id make damn sure to grab myself an Arbys sand which!
* Great Canadian to be exact *

Lastly I'd send a txt/fb/tweet/email whatever to every single person I love, and ask them to meet me at a specific location, when they arrived they would find my favorite music playing, my favorite food being server, but not me.. I'm gone.

All my life I've lived with no regrets, lived life to the fullest and never looked back, from a young age I went through things that children don't go through, and faced situations that adults didn't have answers to. But I survived, never gave up. For the most part I did it with a smile on my face, so why would I want the people I love to be anything but happy. When my times over, I want every to party and party and pa and pa and parrrrrrrrrrty and party!

Weekend recap

Welcome To My "weekend Recap" with Sami



**This week im also joing up on #YOLOMondays, why ..well because its a link up, and what better way to find new blogs :) So join the linkup with Molly **

Friday,
After I got off work I was suppose to go home and have drinks with the roommies and figure out the plans for the night, however that didnt happen. Instead I hung out with "The Farmer" * In highschool, when Audge met said "Farmer" for random reasons still unknown to this day she started calling him Farmer Colin, Which is quite funny seeing how he doesnt look like a farmer, doesnt live near a farm, doesnt have any ambition to farm, nor does he even know a person who ever had/has a barn, yet somehow over the years, the nickname stook.* after work for a few hours, then he drove me home. REALLY LATE. So right to bed I went, thankful that I didn't have to deal with drunk roommates :)

Saturday,
Since I got home late I slept in, woke up around noon and it felt AWESOME! After I was awake and alert Audge, B(Her son) & I went downtown for lunch. This weekend was the sidewalk sale, I remember being so excited about going to it when I was a kid, however this year it sucked! There wasn't any good deals, except the cowboy hats that I bought Audge & I. THEY ARE BALLLIN, cant wait to wear it somewhere! When I got back from downtown, since I'm a old nerd I knew I would need a nap if I planned on going out that night. So I took a nap, and once I woke up I was hardly in the mood to actually go out somewhere, but I still wanted to hangout with people. So I went back over to the Farmers house and drank with him, we ended up staying awake until the early morning.. again.

Sunday,
I was suppose to go to wonderland with Audge, and her man and one of his friends. However after Saturday nights events, I decided not a good look to go out in public after a long night of proving that I'm too old to handle my booze. puking my face off. So I slept in way WAY later then I excepted, and finally left Farmers around 5. After that I rushed to finally watch Jacob play baseball. He did such a good job, I was so proud of him. A little disappointed because he kind of played like a poor sport, he doesn't handle losing very well... He played 1st base for most of the game, which kinda of stunk because I was really looking forward to seeing him pitch. However last inning of the game, he got to pitch. AMAZING! Sunday night I went back to Amys house to spend more time with her and Geoff, since there lose on Friday night I figured they could use some support, even if I didn't stay long or say much. * There 2 good friends passed away from carbon monoxide poisioning .* Later on that night Audge and I went out in the next town over because " SHE NEEDED A HOT MAN" yeah on a Sunday night, in shit crap -whole, sure lets go out. So we put on our best - pick- up-men-outfits - went to a strip club, because it was the only place open. However after that she made up and went back to her mans house, and I ended up going over to The Farmers place, way to find new hot guys audge!

All in all it was a great weekend! Hopefully everyone else had a good weekend!

Friday Letters

Welcome to " Friday Letters" Be sure to join the link up with Ashley ..




Dear Mom,
Are you really that irresposbile that you got evicted from your aparment because you cant control your son and his temper/attitude. I cant handle this stress that you bring on to yourself, and except me to fix it. Not this time, you guys are both on your own. I cant help those who dont want help.

Dear Jay,
You call me your friend, say were close to everyone. Tell everyone that im the best big sister, you love me to death. Well come to find out, I hear about the way you really act, the way you really treat your friends. You say you tell me everything, but it was our aunt who told me that you guys were getting kicked out of your apt, I would of never known. That hurts man, really bad.

Dear Work,
Looks like this was the first successful week of your systems working however, EPIC fail on keeping the network up. Yesterday that fact that not only my phone wouldnt send txt msgs, but half of your customers msgs couldn't send txt msgs. Which meant that not only could I not send txt msgs, BUT I also had to listen to people go on about not sending txt msgs.

Dear Paul,
From here on out I feel like banning ppl from calling me dirty, because its just never going to be the same again. However you joked about everything with me and in life in general! You always said to me" come on DIRTY, you love me, and if I didn't luv ya I wouldn't call ya dirty." Its so true that was our relationship, you ALWAYS made fun of me, and encouraged EVERYONE else to do so as well, i'm gunna miss you!

Dear Cindy,
Ive never seen you pissed your always happy as shit...For the most part. Your energy is amazing, you were ALWAYS cheerful at anytime of any day when I saw you. You go above and beyond for not only your kids, but your friends children. You'll never be forgotten!

Dear Friday,
I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

Dear James Holmes,
Your a douch!, My heart goes out to everyones friends and families in Aurora, Colo ..

Thursday 13 : Crafts

Linking up with Miranda for

This week's topic is Crafts. I picked 10 crafts that I cant wait to try do, if I ever do Ill be sure to link it back here!
* I put a picture up besides the ones I thought were REALLY cool, and that I cant wait to try *

1. Stensile


2. Memorable keepsakes

3. Random coins

4. Cell Phone Cases

5. Stencils

6. Survival Kit

7. Leaf Painting

8. Dates by Numbers

9. Painting Spoons

10. Wall Collage

11. Blocks

12. Flip Flop Hanger

13. T Shirt Weaving

Free Your Mind

I was over visiting Sam and thought it would be fun to answer 50 Random questions about me. I'll answer one question, every week. You can find all the questions Here if you think its a fun idea and want to tag along, or you can just answer all the questions at once. I just figured if I do it once a week, then I always have a subject to talk at least for the next 49 weeks.

So here it goes,
1.How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?

This is a tough question. I always thought that when I was 25 that I would be married, possibly owning my own home, with thoughts of having babies around the corner. I remember being 15/16 and thinking I cant wait to be in my mid 20's so happy and living with the love of my life. Well I'm 24, single and renting a apt that I share with my roommate. Looking back at myself when I was that age, all I can think of is .. " HELLO mid 20's IS NOT THAT OLD!" Back then being in your "twenties" meant that your uber old. I guess that was just the mind frame I had, back then it was still a surprise to hear of working moms. That was only 10 years ago people, *UGH IM SO OLD!*.My mom was 28 when she had me, and all of my other friends parents had them in there mid/early 20s, so that probably where I got the idea that by my late twenties I should be married with babies -However, that's not the question quesion is if you didnt know yourself. If I didnt know myself, I'd say I'm about 24. Id take a look at my life, and say wow that chicks life is awesome! She had no children, so no resposiblity for someone elses life, I can do whatever I want without thinking how it might effect the person Im responisble for. Because now I know that im not 14, im 24. I know what an adverage 24-year-olds life is life. I know that at 24 most people dont have it together. sure alot of my friends are in long term relationships and 2 of them are getting married within the next few months. However thats not all 24 yr olds. I still have friends who live at home, who are still in school, who just had babies, who just brougt there first home together without even being married, I know that life doesnt have a age on it, but if id have to guess Id say im exactly the age that I am, and quite proud of it too!

Is It Normal

This weeks is it normal is a little different, and a little delayed seeing how its wed but better later then never. So with that being said like I said this week is different, not only am I answering the questions but I'm getting my BFF Tony to answer the questions.



1. Is it normal for 2 men to hug?

Me: Totally normal, Why not lets try to move past the sexiest phase ppl.

Him: 1. Yes.

2. Is it normal to gag on your toothbrush while brushing?

Me: Not if your a pro star, just saying.

Him: dunno in dont gag.

3. Is it normal wear the same bra daily?

Me: Well I don't have enough bras to not wear the same ones daily, no do I have time to do more then 1 load of laundry again.

Him: Ew no

4. Is it normal for grown women to frequently use the words "like" or "um" while speaking?

Me: I do it all the time, however it does make me feel like I should be using more of my vocabulary instead of those filler words

Him: Um like yea lol

5. Is it normal eat cake batter/dough?

Me: you know it

Him: Yes

6. Is it normal to go "commando" in public/at work?

Me: is it normal no, have I do it, yes ...hey when you become lazy and irresponsible and don't bring your laundry home to wash it on weekends, then shit happens like when you don't have undies to wear, im talking not even the grannie panties, not even swim suit bottoms!

Him: If u feel the need

7. Is it normal to have long toenails?

Me: No, in the words of ronnie " Thats creepy, and weird"

Him: No

8. Is it normal to try on an article of clothing in the middle of the store?

Me: Yeah, like a coat.

Him: Sure

9. Is it normal to tell someone to be quiet or "shhhh" someone in a quiet setting? ie. church, movie theater, meeting, etc.

Me: Ill look but usually I don't say anything until I'm really annoyed

Him: Yes

10. It it normal to change clothes multiple times before leaving the house?

Me: I do especially if I'm going somewhere, where I could possible be interested in someone.

Him: Yes

So be sure to link up with Allyce and leave me a comment so I can check out your 'Normal' or no so normal responces :)

Get To Know Me

I was visiting Becky @ From mrs to Momma

Found another great way to get you blog out there, and have readers find out more about you!

1. How long have you been blogging? And what got you started on blogging? Has your blog changed?

I started blogging last march, I was reading a few other blogs and thought I had alot to say so I might as well start my own blog as well.

2. Did you go to college? If so where, and what did you study?

I went to Loyalist college, for a year but then I changed my mind on being a daycare teacher and dropped out.

3. Where have you traveled?

No where to exciting, since I was a kid. But I love traveling so at the same time, every new place is exciting to me. So I guess London, Ont was the last place I traveled to, its a 4 hour drive.

4. If you won the lottery, what would be the first thing you would buy?

Not sure what I would buy, I would prob spend it on clothes.. lol I luv clothese :)

5. What are your 3 biggest pet peeves?

Liars, Ppl who let others use them, dirty dishes.

6. What is your favorite movie?

The notebook. Clueless. Friday. Elf.

7. What is your drink of choice; wine, beer, or liquor. Or Water, Soda, Tea?

Liquor, but for everyday life water.

8. What is something you enjoy to do when you have me time?

Nothing, I like to lay there in silence, maybe watch TV

9. If you could have a $10,000 shopping spree to one store, which store would it be?

OMG! - ummm id say, id be the cheapest store, that way I can buy more clothes for less!

10. Share with us an embarrassing moment of your past? Or present.

I really dont get embarrassed easily..

11. What day would you love to relive again?

When I saw my BFF Tony for the first time in over a year.

12. If your life was turned into a movie... what actor would play you?

Wanda Sykes, and no Im not a lesbian ..:)

13. What are the jobs you had in high school/college/the early years?

I worked at a Zellers, Timmies, few call centers -

14. Show us a picture from high school or college.

Larrissa, Moi & Renee

15. If you could travel anywhere in the world, all expenses paid, where would you go?

First stop Abbotsford, BC - Next stop where ever!

16. Show us the most current picture of you or you, or your family, or anything of meaning to you.

17. Where do you see your life 5 years from now?

Where god leads me, ill be okay with that!

Link up with Becky, and be sure to leave me a comment and let me know you did so I can check out your answers!

Weekend recap

Welcome To My "weekend Recap" with Sami




Friday,
Thursday night after work Farmer, Audri, & Scott came over. Scott didn't stay for long but the rest of us including the roomies ending up drinking until the sun came up, well Audri actually feel asleep way before that then Tabby..then it was get awkward so Farmer & I went to bed. I ended up not going to work Friday, %10 because of what happened the night before, and %90 because I REALLY wanted to go to the beach. So later that day Farmer went home, Audri and I met up with our friend and headed for lunch, then to beach! We spent all day there, the water was beau-ti-ful! and I def got my tan on, im like 10x times darker! After we left the beach, we picked up my roomate and head to audris place, we attempted to put up a stripper pole, while drinking..EPIC fail, called over her step dad and ex boyfriend(ya, has awkward written all over it, i know) they attempted to put up the pole but they were drunk, and then the drill died, so we gave up and headed for the bar. Where I got hit on by a guy who wouldn't stop grabbing his crotch, almost got in a fight with my roomates boyfriends, old roomate. Then outside of the bar, with some random chicks. Oh I love my small town, and all its major bull shit!

Saturday,
Amy came over and picked me up at 8:30am, yep that's right about 4 hours after I finally got to sleep, but I didn't mind I couldn't wait to spend time with Hudson. He's usually sleeping when I get there but Amy had to bring him with her to get me, so he was already awake and chatting up a storm, great I thought its going to be one of those days. So we ended up going to Timmies for breakfast then home for cuddle time. We ended up taking a nap, which I really REALLY needed. After the nap, we went out for a bike ride on his new big boy bike that he got for his birthday, he loves it, follow me on instagram to check out the picture :) kalleent87. Saturday night I ended up going back to the same bar that I went to the night before (yeah, its that kind of small town.) and what do you know I run into crotch grabber whose still hitting on me, but then dyeing being there the night before well grabbing himself, yeah okay buddy have another drink. Audris ex and step dad ended up at the bar, and I stopped them from getting into several fights. I also say my old roomate there, hes such a woot but I still wouldn't trade my current roomate. :)

Sunday,
Needless to say, Sunday was a day of rest, I finally finished watching scubs. Yeah baby all 9 seasons, yeah I know I'm a loser.

Hope everyone else had a good weekend:)

Friday Letters

Welcome back to "Friday Letters" Be sure to link up with Ashley





Dear Audri,
Thanks for twisting my arm into playing hookey to go to the beach *let's go to the beach, beach let's go get it on*

Dear Jays,
Only 2 more weeks till you kick some tiger ass! go jays go

Dear Farmer,
You could quite possibly be the funniest person, you make me laugh like no other

Dear Hudson,
Tomorrows the big day. Hudson and Keen day, wonder what kind of shananagians we will get into, cant wait miss you sooooo much!

Hope every one has a good weekend! Check back Monday to see how mine went.

Blog Working

I was over at life as a young momm and saw this new link up. Join up guys.



Since its Wed, I couldn't pass up the chance to also join the Wordless Wednesday link up

Weight Loss Update,

This picture of my self, down 79 pounds, I didn't have a goal I wanted to reach when I set out, but I want to lose another 21 pounds to make a grand total of -100pounds.

BEFOR
@265

10 months later I look like this...

AFTER
@186

Be sure to check out both link ups from today!

GFC

If you've been following my blog its no surprise that I'm obsessed with linkups, and I was reading Nathans blog, and noticed that he was linking up with Melissa, for Google Friend Connect.

Another great way to get your blog out there, and find other bloggers!

So, be sure to join the link up :)

Just Because...

10 rules to live by ...

10. Follow your own path in life. Never follow in someone else's shoes.

9. A real women never needs a man to make her feel wonderful

8. Always tell the ones you love how you feel about them

7. Rules are meant to be broken

6. Always, Always blog

5. No matter how bad things get, there's always someone out there worse off than you.

4. Always help a friend in need.

3. Dont say or do everything you feel, sometimes just let it go..sometimes

2. Some days you cant please everyone.

1. Say what you mean, and mean what you say.

Weekend recap

Welcome To My "weekend Recap" with Sami



Friday,
Another get day at work of my tools not working, so needless to say I was very happy to get off work. My friend Colin picked me up after work, and came back to my place to drink with the roomies. All in all it was a fun night, after the roomies went to bed, we were still wide awake and def not ready for bed, ended up finally watching 21 jump street, omg HILARIOUS!

Saturday,
After staying up with Colin until the wee hours, we ended up getting mobile around 1. I was suppose to go to the 24 hour baseball game, but after a long night of drinking and movie watching, there was no way I was about to sit in the sun - drunk or sober. Saturday night my friend Sarah came over, we had drinks then left for the local pool bar again. Ive been spending alot of time there lately! I guess because its cheap drinks, and 2 min walk from my house. After the bar, I ended up drunk txting coult, and going to his place after.

Sunday,
I spent all day with coult, watchin movies and playing video games, (he sucks at Sonic, totally schooled him!) I seen MIB III, omg it was so epic, im not even going to give away the ending, but trust me when I say this ... MIND BLOWING!! Later that night I went to see Ted with my friend Christine, it was so funny. I figured Im a huge Family Guy fan so I really didnt see how this movie wouldnt be, gee i dont know EPIC! The only annoying part of the show was the teenagers who would not STFU. Okay I get it its cool to go to the movies with a group of friends but, really do you have to drive me so nuts to the point where I cant even pay attention to what I'm trying to watch. Guess this is a form of karma. When I was a teenager I was that loud annoying teenager with there friends and boyfriends so a group of no less then 6 people, prob pissing all the "older" people off which brings me to my next thought, when did I become one of those "older" people at theaters with the girlfriends.

Anyway, hope everyone enjoyed there weekend, dont forget to join Sams link up. Great way to find other blogs, and get your blog out there!

Friday Letters

Welcome back to "Friday Letters" Be sure to link up with Ashley




Dear Love Life,
You suck, really bad.

Dear Amy,
Thank you for inviting me to the overnight ball toury Saturday, cant wait to spend 24 hrs straight with the fam, drinking and laughing and enjoying summer time. .. Oh ya and sleeping in our vehicle,,, gangster!

Dear Jay,
Get your shit together! your making my head hurt

Dear Auntie Mechelle,
Cant wait to see you in a few weeks! Hopefully I can go back with you, be a epic ending to my summer

Dear Jays,
I will be watching you craving your attention in 3 weeks, especially you Mr. Lawrie I see you baby ;)

Hope everyone has a great weekend! check back Monday for my recap, to see what all went down!

Thursday 13 : Current Status

Another week has past, whoa time flies I guess. Anyway, for my top 13 this week I took some inspiration from Aunie "current status"

1. Wearing

Shorts, my fav yellow T, and a sweat, its chilly at work :p

2. Doing

Blogging,

3. Drinking

Water, what else - however I did have a Pepsi, annnnd a chocolate milk, which may explain the tummy ache

4. Music in the background

no music, just the chatting of other co-workers, and the sound of keyboards typing

5. Plans for the evening

home - smoke - scrubs - bed .. lather rinse repeat shit

6. Hairstyle of the day

hair pulled back into a bun

7. Nail Design

REALLY bad, as in 3/10 nails are still fully painted, 5 are really badly chipped, and 2 of them don't have any nail polish left on them at all - i look like a totally prostitute *insert the" I like big butts" beat here*

8. Lunch

Pizza

9. Positive for the day

Tomorrows Friday

10. Negative for the day

Today's Thursday

11. Lusting after

A vaca

12. Looking forward to

The weekend

13. Thinking

Is it home time yet...

Happy Birthday

I cant even begin to imagine how much love I'm going to have for my own children, because this one lil guy particulary, stole my heart!

Dear Hudson,
Happy 4th Birthday Bub, I'll love you forever and a day.

*No idea where the nickname came from, I never give nicknames to the kiddos, "Bub" just stuck since day 1*

When I found out that your mom was pregnant, I was excited and nervous at the same time. A few years back, your mom and dad tried for a baby, but things didn't work out as planned and after 6 months, your mom lost her. I cant imagine how hard it was for her, but I was trying to not get to excited about you, but you mommas a strong women, I did't really doubt her I knew she wouldn't let it happen twice. God knew she was ready this time, it was finally her time to have another baby, for whatever reason God knew she just wasn't ready before so he kept Anna for himself, but he gave us you, Hudson Alexander. The funnies kid I know.

Your so sweet, yet acts you act so tough. You love to follow your dad around, and do everything his dad does. You love morning cuddles the best, when its just you and I on the couch. Your so adventurous, every time you see someone doing something you want to do it, or at least know why /how there doing it. Your a little shy at first, but that only last about 30 seconds. Riding your bike is your new favorite The littlest things make you happy, and I hope that never changes (You actually asked for and were forever great full for your new garden hose, enjoy buddy).

With every year that passes I fall move and more in love. I cant believe your already 4, and in 2 short months you start school, and your brother Jacob will be starting his last year in elementary. I wish that you two would slow down for a min and let me just enjoy the time I have with you guys, you grow up so quick.

I cant wait to see your 5th and 6th and 7th birthday, and watch you blow my mind with amazement as you learn new things year after year!

Love Always,
Keen

2 Truths & A Lie

It's time for Two Truths and a Lie Tuesday with http://pinkkissesandwishes.blogspot.com/p/about.html Mallory.

Pick 2 truths, 1 lie and let you readers guess which one is the lie.

1. I throw Scenty party's so that I can have drinks with the host!

2. I have no pinky toe nails, they just don't grow in!

3. I fell in love with my childhood sweet heart, then he broke up with my for my best friend.

Check back tomorrow to see what one the lie was, and be sure to link up with Mallory!

Is That Normal

Im linking up with Allyce for Is That Normal Tuesday

1.Is it normal to live with your parents past the age of 24?

Unless you have a really good reason. Sick parent, school - life thru your a really bad curve, but there's also a timeline for that, should be more then 6 months.

2.Is it normal to leave your house and/or car unlocked?

I'm use to living in the country, where no one bothers anyone, and sometimes you think about driving you car to the " neighbors", but since I moved back to my hometown, I've been locking everything all the time!

3. Is it normal to prefer using a men's razor instead of a women's?

I've never tried a mans razor, but apparently they work better.

4. Is it normal to go back to bed right after showering for a quick nap?

Pointless, but ugh sure

5. Is it normal to eat chocolate chips straight from the bag?

I do this while I'm cooking so yeah, I guess so:)

6. Is it normal to check behind the shower curtain or under the bed before you get in?

If you have reason to, I don't..

7. Is it normal to talk to yourself?

Sure, lets call it normal, will make me feel better

8. Is it normal to bite your nails?

Yeah, guilty, I try not to because in reality its disgusting. I've managed to actually stop biting them, all the time so now they grow, but there super thin.

9.Is it normal to go to bed without brushing your teeth?

Yeah, I do it all the time, but I also sleep alone so i don't have to worry about anyone smelling my breath

10.Is it normal to "baby talk" your pet?

No, I find it kinda of weird. I've never baby talked to tucker but sometimes are family does.

Link up with Allyce,

Weekend recap

Welcome To My "weekend Recap" with Sami



Friday,
hands down this was my fav day of the whole weekend! Thursdays John surprised me with not only a visit from him but his wife and son, came down as well. So I loved that. The second my eyes opened even a little he was right in my face"morning aunty, want to play trains!" after my 2nd blink he was getting impatient and asked again, figured i haven't even been up for more then 2 mins and this kid acts like Ive been making him wait 3 hours! did i mind? not even a little. we spent the entire day playing. Inside and outside, we spent sometime riding his bike witch it's his new fav thing to do. Friday night we went for dinner at the neighbors,johns wife made hamburgers O.M.G to die for,:). Later that night John and I went into town to hangout with friends, wee came back and spent the rest of the night talking, then playing pin our cell phones downloading and finding new things (yes we are well aware were dorks



Saturday,
I spent Friday again at johns sooooo i was still there Saturday sooooo i played with Q some more, the n wee packed up the house and they headed back for St.Thomas:( everyone John leaves i can't help but miss him and think of the Wessels we spent not talking to each other over bulkshit. Just glad that we sorted it out and everything it's great now. Got back on the hoe train this weekend with some new ladies! audris mom and sister (which i regret to as my mom and sister) are newly single sooooo they came out with us. We went to a pool bar down the street where i ran into the most random ppl,who i haven't seen in awhile.

Sunday,
After the bar I crashed at Audris new place (which it's right around the corner from me,yay). Sunday morning her mom and sister came by and her mom took us all out for breakfest! every Sunday for a few weeks now Audri and I would go into the same restaurant, the cook the back just stares in awe everytime, but ooh well he makes our food sooooo good we let him stare. So one morning we left him a note after breakfast saying "dear cook, the food was almost as good as our view, -xo 2 hot chicks" The next time we went in all the waitress were laughing, then he comes over to our table to thank us, and tell us itmade his day! So when we went back for breakfast needless to say we were disappointed to find out he wasnt working that day! maybe next week;). Later i came home cleaned the entire apartment top to bottom except the bathroom i hate cleaning out so i left it for another day. For the rest of the night i relaxed with a beer and enjoyed some me time.

Since I'm Canadian I also had Monday off with pay I might add, AWESOME!

Monday,
I woke up at like 9am because it was so bloody hot out, and relaxed for the rest of the morning. I also weighed myself, down 78 pounds, couldn't be more proud of myself, I look so freaking awesome (Ill try and update my weight loss later this week!) That afternoon I went to see Jay since it was his 20th bday. I still cant believe hes freaking 20, like whoa! We watched some movies 21 jump st, and friends with benefits, and had some ice cream cake. I left there later that night, and spent the rest of the evening relaxing to my guilt pleasure, scrubs.

Hope everyone enjoyed there weekend :)